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Sexual Nudity

“Sex and nudity go together like peas and carrots.”

Isn’t that how the saying goes? I don’t know. But I do know that while sex requires a degree of nudity (the more the better, to be honest), nudity does not require sex.

Nudism is a lifestyle of nudity. Nudism is not a lifestyle of loose, illicit sex. Nudists like to be naked. I am sure most nudists also like sex. But the two are not related. Or at least they shouldn’t be.

Would I be lying if I said I was not attracted to the sight of a nude woman? Yes. Nude women are beautiful. So are clothed women for that matter. But do I lust after them and desire to have sex with them?

No.

That’s not the purpose of nude recreation.

The purpose of nude recreation is to equalize and humanize all people. It is not to objectify and de-personalize them. Nudists don’t make naked people into meat for them to covet.

The human mind is capable of making distinctions. While I can be sexually attracted to my wife’s nude body I can also see other women’s bodies as merely there. This is not so say I see them as objects, they are people of course. But they are of no consequence to me when it comes to sexual thoughts or desires.

That’s why it really grinds my gears when I see “nudists” post photos online with sexual tags or invitations to lust after them.

Nudist

Or when they post photos posed to center attention on their junk.

Not nudist

Why post photos focused squarely on the genitals? Why don’t they do the same for ears or arms or noses? Those are body parts too. Why not give them some photographic love?

Nudist

To put it bluntly, those are exhibitionists, not nudists. Those are people who get a rise out of showing off their sexual organs to others. They do not view their sex organs as simply another part of them, they view them as the most important part of them.

Not nudist

True nudists praise the body holistically. The whole body is a marvel to take in. From the top of our heads to the soles of our feet, we are beautiful. Our eyes are beautiful, our arms are beautiful, our hands are beautiful, our feet are beautiful, our breasts are beautiful, our butts are beautiful, our knees are beautiful, and even our penises, scrotums, and labias are beautiful.

Nudist

Let’s stop making the body an object of sexual lust and start seeing it for the beautiful creation that it is.

Let’s start seeing the body as the beautiful vessel created for a beautiful soul.

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  2. Those that wish to profit on human desire will always link nudity to sex, as normalized naturism doesn’t make profits. Perverts and predators will give nakedness a bad name. True naturists must continue to fight for the truth, and as more people experience the joy of nonsexual nudism, society will gradually accept it as normal.

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  3. I agree 100 % and have been saying this to all I talk to about nudism. Being a nudist does not mean I “ want” to see others nude nor do I “want “ others to see me nude. Nudist do it because it feels good and is comfortable to be nude.

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  7. Don’t know about you but when I wore a younger man’s clothes I lusted after women and wanted to have sex with them. Nude or clothed, it was all the same. The human reproductive drive will not be denied.

    If I didn’t lust I would never date, never have sex, never marry, never have children. I would react to an interesting girl like a sister – or maybe a close buddy. And the species would be dead if everyone felt that way. Romantic love – pair bonding – is a product of sexuality.

    The difficult part is not being a creep about it. And how to feel lust yet not pursue the matter; to just be happy the world contains such marvelous creatures. There is no school for teaching appropriate vs inappropriate techniques to woo or to seduce. Lots of punishments in a futile effort to deter bad behavior but no actual direction in what good behavior is. Empathy, sadly, is not a universal human trait.

    Once you are used to social nudity you find that nudity doesn’t increase your sex drive. No matter how much clothing you put on a person, male or female, the sex drive remains constant. It simply refocuses on whatever clues still remain. But being a nudist doesn’t suddenly turn you into a nonsexual character nor does it change a creep into a nice person.

    And the truth is that even if the world were entirely populated by nudists, there would still be a market both for porn and even ordinary pictures of pretty women and girls. That is how humans are largely made. Lust that cannot be fulfilled in reality will be fulfilled in fantasy and pictures and videos are the most common accessories for that.

    By pretending the “nudist” label means men and women don’t look upon each other with lust based entirely on physical factors you create a model of nudism guaranteed to fail.

    Actually, I still lust after women but I just don’t pursue the issue. It has been a nonstarter since I got married over 3 decades ago. I told my soon-to-be wife I’d always be faithful – but the day I stopped even looking, she might as well bury me because a very important part of my brain would be dead.

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